What the HELL is going on with our MEN?

Can someone, anyone help me understand what the HELL is going on with our men? Yes, our men in 2012! For a long time now I have been seeing a pattern, a trend, a system – what ever you want to call it with men. I’ve seen that many don’t care to commit (all ages), many refuse to work for our time and want to spend time with us when it’s only convenient for them! Wth is up with that?

Can someone please explain this!

*Note: This is no disrespect nor hatred towards men I just want feedback – God knows I love all types of men 🙂